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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You have your answers. Mom doesn't care if you stay in a hotel. Stepbrother sure doesn't care about anyone but himself. You have to take care of yourself, OP. [/quote]

I'm the OP and I meant to add that my mom said that she's trying to help me by telling me to stay in a hotel so that it won't be stressful on me, so that I can rest after being on such a long flight because there are kids in the house. But I still don't get it. My brother and sister both stayed there over the summer with their families (they have kids and I don't).  I'm really trying to figure out if my mom's reasons are really just bullshit and she doesn't want me there. Today i [b]asked her straight up if I'm staying in a hotel because she doesn't want me there and she got mad and managed to not answer the question. [/b]She tells me I'm welcome to come over and eat, visit etc but that [b]I must stay at the hotel because of the stress level in the house.[/b] She says [b]the situation with my stepbrother has pushed her to her limit, but then why the hell is he still there with his kids and with no end in sight [/b](is my question)? He has a good job, highly paid, etc. It's not like he can't afford his own place.[/quote]

I'm PP. Again- you have your answers. He is still there because she chooses that.[/quote]

It's a hard thing to accept when HE called my mom every name in the book and now she is primary caretaker of his kids. [/quote]

We know it's hard for you to accept, we tried to reason with you months ago!!!

The more you sink into "me me me" territory, the less anyone will have any patience with you. If you've made yourself this unpleasant to your family for years, no wonder they hold you at arms' length.

Stop it, OP.

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