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[quote=Anonymous]While I think 6am is a bit much but I would stay out of it.  I would think after one morning of getting in at 6am and having an early morning kid activity he would rethink doing that again.  I had one time bringing  my dd to swimming class after celebrating my birthday the night before (my mom was in town) and DH was bringing mom to the airport while I had swim lessons.  Never again.  So I personally would say nothing.  I’m assuming he is a smart guy and will figure out rushing your child makes her behave worse.  I know I figured out after a few times the more I rushed the kids getting ready in the morning the more drama and everyone being upset and yelling would ensue so it was important to leave more than enough time, not raise my voice, and start a morning checklist to help them get the routine.

As for you offering to take dd this morning, it would be extra nice but I don’t think you are terrible for not offering.  He could have asked you if he wasn’t up for it, he could have not taken her today and made it up by taking her someplace in the afternoon, and yes, he could have gotten home by 1am like he said he would - he is a grown adult.  I don’t t think it’s bean counting to expect someone to do what they say and say what they do.  That doesn’t mean there isn’t room for flexibility it just is communicated and has agreement.

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