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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Honestly, it's complete bullshit. I am a married man that often does things for my wife that I'm not particularly fond of. We have been taking dancing lessons twice a week for an hour each night and I really don't like it.  I would rather be at home watching a ballgame or sipping on some wine.

Why do I do it? I love my wife and can see the joy that it brings her.  Its only 2 hours a week and this woman has put up with some of my quirks (minor but just like any other person they are there) for 20+ years.

Most women conflate sex into their marriage with every other issue under the sun.  Let's say that you are talking 3 times a week and each time is 30 minutes.  That's 1 1/2 hours a week?

If you don't like the guy any more divorce.  If you do, screw him a couple times a week and fake liking it!

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This this this. Thanks, guy. As a married woman, I agree. My DH does a lot I'm sure he doesn't like doing. But, he does it, and doesn't even usually roll his eyes. So, even if I'm not feeling it all the time, we make time for sex. And probably you doing dancing makes her like you more, and more likely to be into the sex with you! Win-win.[/quote]

+1 Woman here, and I agree.  My DH does whole bunch of $hit that I'm sure he hates, but he does it with a smile to keep things moving smoothly.  I, intern put on my best face and make time for sex. Most times I'm not for up it because as soon as I get into it, Ol'boy is done! and I'm like WTF?[/quote]

Tell him you don't enjoy when he finishes before you. Instruct him to focus on YOU, before ol'boy goes to town.
Yes, you shouldn't "have to" tell him this. But with your firm guidance, he will learn, and obey.[/quote]

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