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[quote=Anonymous][quote]My spouse has much stronger feelings for me, I believe and would be crushed by a break up. Another thing keeping me. I love my spouse, just like a friend or sibling. I am wracked with guilt.[/quote]

Why do you believe he has much stronger feelings?  It is very likely he would be just fine with the divorce (given a little time) and would land in dating market on both feet.

Free your mind about the guilt.  Are you good with him getting remarried?  Do not give us the "I just want him to happy and his new wife to be good to my kids" crap.  Have you really thought about what happens when he finds someone new, falls in love, and gets married?  He may be much happier with his new wife and it is possible he finds someone before you do.

Often, the spouse who thinks they are doing their DH/DW a "favor" by staying in the marriage is unpleasantly suprised when their former DH/DW finds happiness with someone else and they are hanging out at Clyde's looking for love.[/quote]

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