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[quote=Anonymous]OP, not sure why this topic is coming up so quickly when dating guys (since you say it has only been of for 6 months). I was definitely not talking about my weight with dates that early. Are you bringing up the topic? FWIW, I lost about 60 lbs in my mid-20s, felt like I was super fit and cute (down to 120 lbs) and can totally empathize with where you are coming from in term of stretch marks, etc. However, the only date I have ever mentioned my weight loss to was my now-husband, and that was after dating 5 or 6 months (although by that time, I had been at my current weight for about 5 years). I don't define myself by my weight, either when I was heavy or now that I'm slim, and I don't think previous weight loss is a relevant part of the "getting to know you" early phase of dating, although I certainly was open about it later in our relationship.[/quote]
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