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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am a NP who also lost a lot of weight - I am now 70 lbs lower than my highest non-pregnant weight and have maintained this weight for years. I'm in the 120s.

Hate to break it to all the jerks out there, but women like OP and me are the best kinds of women to date if you are worried about someone getting fat. I can guarantee that I will never, ever, ever be fat again. I am so vigilant about my weight. I eat sweets and junk and carbs just like everyone else, but I stay on top of things so that one bad day is offset by 6 great ones. I know exactly how it feels to be 190 lbs and I never, ever want to be there again.. so much so that I will never get to 130 again, because I know exactly what a slippery slope it is.

It's the women who have never had to try that have problems after childbearing, IMO.[/quote]

Agreed.  I lost 100 pounds and will never let myself get that heavy again.  I had surgery to remove my extra skin and gained about 15 pounds during that period and the moment I could get back to a regular workout routine, I did and started to lose it.   My weight gain came when I found out I was pregnant with my first child and had to quit smoking.  I gained 80 pounds.  I was doing everything I could to get the weight off after giving birth, but a week before my son turned one, my mother passed away.  To make a really long story short, over the course of 6 years I lost my mom, 3 grandparents, 2 friends and had 5 abdominal surgeries.  The last surgery I had was a total hysterectomy that left me post menopause at 35.  I am now 40 and realize that if people don't like me for who I am and where I came from, they are not worth my time.

You are strong both mentally and physically for being able to achieve such a goal.  Find a man who will see you as such![/quote]

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