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[quote=Anonymous]There are red flags all over this, and the fact that she is your co-worker makes this very clear cut. Reading your post I had the unsettling feeling that you already told her too much about your private life.

She may not be showing any outward signs of "crazy", but the fact that she's so actively and aggressively pursuing a married colleague (before she knew the details of your relationship) is definitely off-putting. It's probably hard for you to fully take that in because you're very sexually attracted to her and flattered by her interest.

But something is off. She has no boundaries, and that makes her a particularly dangerous person to get involved with. There are far too many risks here, to your job/career and relationship. You may already be in murky water with her here - my inner alarm bells are already ringing as I read about your interactions with her.

And then add to the fact that she's not willing to be honest wirh and respectful toward her own partner, AND the age-old wisdom that you don't poop where you eat...and this is a definite no.

I would let her know that the entire foundation of this lifestyle with your wife is honesty, and no secrets. [/quote]

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