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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am amazed at the expectation that someone should print out a picture.  If you want the picture then you print it and mail it and make it easy.  My MIL is in a nursing home and its still a lot of work dealing with the nursing home which is terrible, buying her clothing and everything she needs (which we often pay for out of our money) and visiting at least weekly.

My Dad is declining and my parents are separated.  Mom wants to control everything related to money and my sister wants an opinion.  I have had it and told them to deal with it as if they want to have all the control and decision making there is no need for me to get involved.  (I'm going to have to pick up all the pieces as they will not do anything but send emails saying what needs to be done).  My sister's attitude is she live far away.  (well, we can fix that and move away too).  [/quote]

Why not give your other relatives sizes and ask them to order clothes for your MIL? You can bring the clothes to her when you visit. Folks in nursing homes don't need a lot of stuff (no room for it) but they do need clean, comfy clothes and shoes.

Your own parents being married but separated with your dad's health declining and your mom controlling all the money is a bad situation.  I have no suggestions for that, sorry that your mom is making this so difficult for you though.[/quote]

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