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Reply to "Refusal to change your last name makes me question your committment!!"
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[quote=Anonymous]ugh. insecurity is so unattractive. I wouldn't bend on this, frankly, not because it's actually important but because it is actually not. (probably, depends on your profession, publishing record, etc). Marriage involves bending and compromising on plenty of unimportant and important things, but if this dumb thing (being "embarrassed" that you won't take his name) is a dealbreaker for him at the outset, he needs to grow the hell up, stop worrying about what his 19th century friends think, and start worrying about what his wife thinks. it's your name, you're going to keep it because it's you and because you use it professionally already. if he thinks it is an important symbol of commitment, he is welcome to take your name. you'll be more convinced of his commitment, especially now that he is inventing dumb reasons to call things off. [/quote]
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