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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I wouldn't marry him. He's old fashioned in his views, tries to impose his will on you in a matter that is much more your business than his, and is not open to conflict resolution. These are red flags.[/quote] Plus it's manipulative to say he's fine with it the whole time you're dating, then propose and spring it on you that this is a deal breaker. He was apparently fine with lying to you for years because he knew he could manipulate you with an ultimatum when it came time to get married. Is this a conflict resolution style you're comfortable with for the next 50 years, OP? He'll lie to you so you think you're on the same page, then say "my way or the highway" when time to make the actual decision comes around?[/quote]
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