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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This seems incredibly selfish.  You're willing to blow up your entire family for this.  You admit that your DH is a "nice, loving partner" yet you are willing to throw him to the curb for someone else.  Did you even try improving your own marriage or work on your own issues before going out and finding someone else? Marriage is not all sunshine and roses all of the time.  You made a commitment and frankly, it sounds like your marriage isn't even bad.  You just sound like an immature, bored housewife.[/quote]

I am definitely not a housewife.  And yes, we did work on our problems and went to counseling.  Unfortunately for me it seems it was too late.  [b]I can't get those feelings back for him.[/b] [/quote]

[b]Those feelings are not coming back because you are having an affair and you are stopping those feelings from coming back as a way to justify your affair.  This is all on you, not the feelings fairy who is refusing to cooperate.[/quote][/b]

I worked as a social worker at a family crisis center and I can't tell you how many times Ive seen this. The person having an affair is so blind to the fact they are unable to emotionally connect with their spouse because they pour all their energy into their fair partner. Its painful to see someone not see something so obvious.[/quote]

Yup. OP has made and continues to make bad decisions. I dont think she will realize the above until shes divorced and AP isnt what she hoped for [/quote]

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