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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Lol you have white men on here saying wear it natural and be you but they never dated a black woman with natural, coarse, dry hair. OP, wear it how you want but take care of your natural hair. If you do braids, you have to give your scalp a break and to breathe. It can be damaging for the roots. Weaves are damaging for the roots as well, so not all of the time. Straightening of the hair may require a lot of chemicals, so be careful. Moisturize your hair! African American hair tends to lack essential oils. Best of luck and stop changing yourself to attract a man. That is unattractive.[/quote]
White male here. I would love to date any of the lovely AA women I see around the city and so would most of my friends. But it's hard. White, Asian, and Hispanic women socialize at the predominately white bars in my neighborhood and they all try to catch my eye. If I look at them, even if they're not interested, they will at least hold eye contact and make conversation.

IME AA women overwhelmingly socialize in groups and go primarily to bars and clubs that are predominantly AA. And if I look at them or try to smile in a way that shows interest, 90% of the time, they will quickly look away or not even acknowledge my eye contact in the first place. And if they do acknowledge me and I try to talk to them, I will have to at some point explain that I do not have a fetish and then get quizzed on my politics. I understand why all of this is the way it is. I know American history. But it makes it all very hard for non-black men interested in black women. Men already have the pressure of having to approach women. Adding the racial mistrust hurdles just makes it all feel impossible. [/quote]

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