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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is he the one that was traveling for a month with his "friend"?[/quote]

The same. Now he's back and dictating this and that. He can have it. I'm kicking him to the curb, getting a condo with no lawn work and keeping my own money. He can have his new car, new lathe, new computer and trips and he can pay for them out of his $. Why would I keep a husband who hasn't touched me in 20 years and makes me feel like shit about myself? I was far happier and more productive while he was gone. Now he's been back 48 hours and I wish he were still gone. Calling lawyer tomorrow.

Problem: We're supposed to go to beach with four other couples on Saturday. Go and fake it or not?

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I have to say OP- I would not have the "he can have it" attitude.  Divorce is kind of like a war- you want to be level headed, but it's a negotiation.  I worked in family law and routinely saw men who were ready to fight and women who just wanted things to be civil.  So the guy would go in it with a fighting attitude and come out with way more, because the woman was willing to acquiesce to end it.  Divorce is hell but don't take it lying down, don't give him many things.  Fight each thing he wants because guaranteed you will have things divided out unfairly anyway- but if you are lobbying and fighting your chances of getting more go way up [/quote]

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