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[quote=Anonymous]WOW! I'm always dumbfounded by the "HE'S wrong! He's abusive! He's narcisstic!" crowd. Like, how badly have some of you women been hurt by men to have such a horrible view of them? We don't know either one of these people, so while he could be a jealous killer maniac, there really is nothing in her post to let us know that.

It is very possible OP was being flirty at the party, thinking it was "cute" to make him a bit jealous. Women (and men) play those games all day long, especially young women.

Frankly, if I started a new relationship with a guy and he spent a lot of time talking to other females at a party, I would see that as a red flag too!!! Most men focus on the woman during social events or get together with a group of guys.

I think that the guy should've talked to OP about it but I can also understand him thinking, RED FLAG!

OP, I've been in your shoes several times before-being new to an area, not having many friends but longing to make them, then being invited to a party. I always, always, always struck up conversations with women.

Talking to a bunch of men is embarrassing and I was never going to do that to anyone I dated.

Self-awareness is needed here, OP. It doesn't look good.

I also agree you should let it go. I truly believe that people breaking up with you = a blessing in disguise that we may not see at the time. But don't focus only on him and his reaction. Seriously consider how your actions led to them. For every ACTION there is a REACTION.[/quote]

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