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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This much emotional investment when your kid is 9...going to be a tough road ahead for you, and even more so for your poor kid. Seriously, it's bad enough to care about this stuff in your OWN club. If you care about the team rankings in other clubs, you need a new hobby.

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"Is that Bethesda's B team or D team?" is a legitimate question. Particularly when you have a coach who tends to get your team in a bracket that's either too high or too low for its current ability level.

Also, on a pragmatic level, this sort of information-sharing helps us shut down the trash-talking idiots who come here and say Club X can't be that good because his DS's team just beat their team.[/quote]

Agree.  It's also just generally useful to get to know what the local soccer scene looks like so you can make informed decisions about your child's path as you go along.  Same reason it's good to talk to parents of other teams at games and tournaments.  The more connected you feel, the more likely you are to want to put in the time needed to support your kid.  Plus it makes it more fun.  I feel really sorry for people like the PP who smugly assume that their narrow view is the only right one.[/quote]

:) No need to feel sorry for me. I don't feel sorry for those of you who spend your free time figuring out the color rankings of other teams in your league, but I do think, after years of experience, that you're all a little crazy. If your heart is going to get broken when your gold/silver/blue/brown kid is moved down a level, or give him a hard time when he loses to the wrong-level team, or try to gear him up with a lot of extra sleep and some extra agility training in the backyard because ohmigod he's playing a higher level team this week, then you're WAY overly invested in your child's hobby, and everyone around you, including your kid's coach, sees it. Your own kid will point it out to you when he's 12 if you don't freak him/her out too much and scare her from bringing it up. Happened to me as a child (my mom was NUTS about the sport she had me playing, sounding just like many of you), and I won't let it happen to my own kids.

My boys have played at all levels of travel soccer in a big club here. They've moved up and down. They're good players and they love soccer, but neither is the next Messi, nor is anyone they've ever played with or against. They're a bunch of nice kids spending their free time playing a great sport, which is better than spending their free time playing Call of Duty. That's it!

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I love these tired posts in soccer threads. This is almost the Godwin's law of soccer discussion threads. No matter what simple question about soccer there is it always ends up with some bore making a comment like "I feel sorry for these parents who think they have the next Messi or Alex Morgan".  :roll:

Jesus all somebody did was ask what the order clubs use to designate their A, B, C etc teams and you think that means they are freaking out or believe their kid is Messi. Your post is about as original as butter on toast.[/quote]

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