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Reply to "DH walked away from lunch date with me and the kids--am I overreacting?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think he was right. Sometimes you need to disengage in order to not have things continue to escalate. Since the fight continued once you got home, it seems your husband made the right choice to not have the fight continue in public. [/quote] +1. He didn't storm off and give you the silent treatment. He explained he needed time to calm down. That's a legit response. [/quote] OP here. These comments are helpful. I do think he felt he was doing the right thing by calming down. I am generally fine with either of us taking a break from a discussion as long as there's no silent treatment involved. This felt different because he wasn't just going to the other room for awhile, he was leaving a planned activity and leaving me with the kids. But I should give him the benefit of the doubt that he saw it as a normal "calm down" break. [/quote]
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