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[quote=Anonymous]I've only had c-sections so I have no idea how painful the recovery after a tear is, so please take that into account in my response. Just remember that a c-section is major abdominal surgery where your muscles, uterus, and nerves are cut through. Here are a few things that you should seriously consider about having a c-section vs. risking a second tear: - You won't be able to carry/lift your older child for at least two weeks, possibly even longer after you give birth. - You will have a really hard time going up and down stairs for at least a few days, possibly even longer after you give birth. I live in a three story townhouse and just assumed my recovery would be as easy as last time. I forgot that the first time, we lived in a ranch, so of course it was easy. - You may have nerves cut that don't repair themselves. Read up on abdominal numbness after c-section. I didn't have this the first time, but it's 15 months after my second, and there is a chunk of my lower abdomen that I can't feel because the nerves didn't grow back. My OB says that at this point, it's probably permanent. - The C-section shelf is real. There is so much more...[/quote]
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