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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. He asked me out again yesterday after saying he had a good time. Wouldn't he just ghost if he wasn't interested? [b]I get I need to chill but I don't know how I handle going forward[/b]. Should I not mention anything and don't make advances until he does?[/quote]

OP, we've all been there.  Getting something started with a new person who has potential and trying to figure out how to proceed.  As I mentioned yesterday, not every man is interested in having sex with a new person as soon as it is possible.  I wish women would stop believing this. Whether a man has had one partner or 50, they are always nervous getting into bed with a new woman.  He likes you or he would not have called.  Willing to bet here that he will make some kind of advance with the next date or one after at most.

Wouldn't you rather be with a guy who is taking his time and interested in getting to know you better so that he can be more comfortable once the time comes?[/quote]

Op here. You're right. The last time I was single was at 25/26. I never had a guy wanting to wait. I was the one that wanted to wait. It's new territory for me but maybe it's because I'm dealing with a more mature man. [/quote]

Jesus wasn't there a sex and the city episode about this? women over think things.  Men want sex with women they want. The end.  He is either dating other people which is fine since you arent committed. Or he is just not into you.  Even men who are "nervous"" (from another PP) still have sex with women whom they like and are available.  women really have no clue how men think.  Honestly OP, you need to pull back. Don't call or text him until he reaches out to you. Don't take him up on the first thing he offers. he needs to chase a little bit, believe me you will be whole lot more interestig to him.[/quote]

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