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[quote=Anonymous]OP, you wrote on my forum post regarding my finding my birth father/brothers months after finding out my DNA results.

I am considered, I believe, a stable person.  Finding out that the reality of my familial bloodline was far different than I knew was a huge shock.  I went through many stages of shock, anger, sadness, disbelief, sadness again, determination, more sadness............my point is, he'll have to come up with his plan on his own.  Give him time and try not to push too much other than letting him know you support whatever he chooses.

Just weeks before my news, I got married to my high school sweetheart.  (Let's just say that was 20+ years ago).  Having him by my side walking through this, I realized how valuable his unconditional support was.  He listened without telling me what I "needed to do" and was understanding of however I needed to process it.  He celebrated when I found the family and when I met them.

Your role in this is basically this:  Be there for him regardless of his choice.  Support the choice he makes.  Give your opinion if he asks for it.  This is such a personal decision.  Give it some time![/quote]

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