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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Presumptions and generalizations exist for a reason, unfortunately.

Too many people have been burned and hurt due to "bi" partners regardless of the gender. As many gay men will tell you, the gay app  and hookup scene is rife with bi men, whether truly bi or gay, looking for sex on the sly while in committed relationships with women. I personally would not be comfortable in a relationship with a bisexual person because it substantially increases the odds of a unhappy ending. Nor would I be comfortable in a relationship with someone who is also sexually attracted to the gender opposite mine. Men and sex...well, it'd always be in the back of my mind. Enough said.

Of course, different people have different expectations and tolerance for different types of relationships so what works for one person doesn't work for others. But if the OP is worried at this point, her instincts are probably telling her what her tolerance and comfort levels are.

[quote=Anonymous]Just dump him you ain't cut out for it.
If you really want to understand HIM then you'd talk to him and rely on the information he provides as opposed to simply seeking a short cut and assigning a generic label that will allow you to make presumptions based on those corresponding generalizations.  [/quote][/quote] This is Op, sorry I left for a bit.  We are still together. We are both low drive, maybe because he is gay? But he doesn't come across that way at all. Since we are both low drive, best friends, partners it seems to be working well. We have a blast together, vacations, wineries, you name it.  Sex is fun when it does happen, which is once every 2 months. We cuddle every night, we kiss, hold hands. I actually think this is the right fit.[/quote]

It's a good fit if you don't mind that he has a boyfriend on the side. That is a life choice that you can make if you don't mind it. Make sure he uses protection.[/quote]

Honey there isn't a man on this Earth that is happy with sex once every 2 months. He's cheating on you with men.[/quote]

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