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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How old are you?  if you are older than 20, then I'd say let it go.  You went on several dates, liked him, but hadn't even kissed him?  It is completely understandable for the guy to question you as kissing is an indicator whether someone likes you as a friend or boy/girlfriend.  You were way to slow for him and too prudish.  Not that there's anything wrong with that, but you just need to look for a guy that's equally prudish. He's not the one for you.[/quote]

3 dates, and no kissing. Is that bad? I'm new to this. [/quote]

Huh. On the 3rd date we did everything. Married after a year or so.[/quote]

Full disclosure - date #1 was at a book store looking at books and lasted 45 minutes. date #2 was watching baseball at a bar during lunch. date 3 we literally just met for a 20 minute glass of wine. They werent long dates and they werent in appropriate places to start making out.

And yes, the requests from him were borderline inappropriate.

If any of the above matters. [/quote]

I would not call 3 a date -- not for a third date...maybe for a first.

Here is the last two women I dated (second became my wife)

Not my wife:

First date:  We went to a jazz concert...ended up making out in the car after the concert. (Thus)
Second Date:  I cooked her dinner...We said we were not going to have sex...but somehow we ended up naked in the living room...There was strong chemistry.  (sun)

In hind sight she was a lousy gf, but would have been a great FWB.

Now for my wife:  We lived about 80 miles from each other...so
First Date:  Dinner, and conversation.  We closed down the restaurant...
Second date: walked around Annapolis, kissed goodnight
Third date:  Nice dinner on the water, made out (2nd base)
4th date:  spend the night

The key thing is a progression...it tells me that she is interested[/quote]

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