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[quote=Anonymous]It's a gift to have this information now, OP, and not after the wedding.

It's hard to say what's going on with her fiance besides him wanting gay sex.  We have no idea what his upbringing is and whether he's positioned to have come out as gay or bi, or even explore that.  So as for him being a liar and cheater,  those labels are facile.  He might be one poor, messed up dude.

That doesn't lessen the hurt for OP, I understand.  In any case, OP, you have very valuable information now.

I had a college friend who was in this position 15 years ago.  Discovered that her boyfriend of a few years (they were discussing engagement at the time) had had some gay flings.  She confronted him and he told her that it was "experimentation" and he was done with it, it wasn't who he was.  He loved her and wanted to get married.  Popped the question, gave her a huge diamond ring.  She went from horrified/confused/disgusted to forgiving him and marrying him.

5 years later she had an STD detected during pregnancy.  He had been having unprotected sex with men during business trips.  They are now divorced.[/quote]

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