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[quote=Anonymous]Sorry OP. Can relate. I think in my experience - going through different stages of life and issues -- people just make small talk without thinking or getting that it's insensitive. Like when you're not married and people constantly ask about if you are going to have married. Or after getting divorced, people actually asked me if I was going to get remarried. Or when don't have any children and get asked when you're going to have children, etc. I had a child who died and constantly had people ask me if/when I was going to have children... (either that didn't know or even those that did!!) The latest is people asking about our middle school plans (we live in an area without a high performing middle school). So, for my own sanity, I've tried to refocus on trying to give people the benefit of the doubt that it's just them trying to come up with mindless small talk.[/quote]
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