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[quote=Anonymous]Girlfriend, you got to love yourself! Find yourself some gay friends-- male and female-- and get busy living life and quit feeling sorry for yourself! Quit playing the "what if" game. You made the decision to come out years ago; so make the best of it. I came out when I was 33 and I was very fortunate that my parents and siblings didn't bat an eye; however my wealthy, conservative hateful cousins from Nashville refused to acknowledge me at my own grandmother's funeral, we grew up together, we went through a lot of emotional hard time together and they betrayed me. I was crushed.  I went to my 15 year HS reunion, and it was miserable and humiliating. When it was confirmed that I was gay...most everyone at the reunion snubbed me. I spent most of my 30s hating and resenting these people and not to mention that I felt sorry for myself every waking moment of the day. NO more feeling sorry for myself. I made myself make a lot of gay and straight friends, did some volunteer work, went to the Episcopal church, see where this is going? I live life to it's fullest every day and you should too! Don't wake up in 20 years hating yourself and resenting a bunch of dumb fcks....forgive, forget and move on! I don't hold on to any that garbage anymore but I certainly do not pander to those jerks either. If you don't love me for who and what I am, then hit the road fart breath! That's basically my outlook on life!  I am very successful and have my own life and love every blessed day that's been given to me! [/quote]

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