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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, every moment that you grieve deeply for your father is a moment that you are not enjoying and connecting with your baby and husband. If for no other reason, this one is important enough to seek help. Dont miss this time, it is the most precious. [/quote] Why don't you just throw a guilt trip on a new mom who misses her father? What a dick move and how unrealistic. You can grieve and parent. You can grieve and be a wife. I don't understand people who expect you to grieve a loved one a certain amount and then never feel sad or miss them again. I miss my grandmother, badly. I tell my kids stories about her and still cry for her sometimes. But I'm an involved and devoted mom and wife. You can miss someone and parent well.[/quote]
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