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Reply to "divorcing a man with borderline personality disorder"
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[quote=Anonymous]People with BPD tend to find the end of relationships to be quite traumatizing. It tends to amplify every bad thought they ever had about themselves and you. I knew she never loved me, I know I wasn't loveable, I knew ... Pulling away from them feels like you keeping water just out of reach when they are dying of thirst in the desert...They will fight you for that water as they think they are fighting for their life. and when you keep pulling it away, you will become evil in their eyes. The divorce and aftermath will not go well. you need to brace an prepare for that, it will make them hate you and themselves, they may up the ante of their attempts to get you to see it their way or to pull you back in. [/quote]
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