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[quote=Anonymous]What was the context? Did you say, why aren't we having sex anymore, I need to know...and he answered, I'm honestly not attracted to you because of your weight? If he did not say it maliciously, I know it may still hurt, but i think anger and lashing out is not the best response. If it was something like that I think you two can work on it, if you still want to. You can be just as honest and say well I still feel sexy, and i think you are a bit obsessed with exercise and body control. Likely he sees it as a sign of self control. You guys can find other ways to rebuild intimacy by doing things like working out together, going for couples massages, or vacationing. In every relationship this happens (attraction wanes and has to be built back up) so I wouldn't get too hung up on the weight issue. And make sure you really are doing things that make you feel sexy (nice clothes, pampering, etc) so that you are honest when you tell him you feel sexy. [/quote]
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