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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It was typical college behavior. Same stuff everyone else did all weekend, only he always seemed to get caught.

It was 12 years since we parted ways, but we've been together nearly a year, so 13 years. [/quote]

As a parent, I would point out that if he was always getting caught, then that meant he was doing it way more often and in a much more over the top way.

As a parent, if what he was getting caught for involved alcohol or any drugs, I would be deeply concerned that you were back with him.  I would advise you against involcement with suc an Ex unless he had a long, demonstrable history of being clean and going to AA or rehab.

As the former wife of an alcoholic who grew up in an alcoholic family, I would advise others not to underestimate the baggage that a person from an alcoholic family carries. I grew up in a family of non-users, And I basically had no idea what I was in for when I met my now Ex, and I really "accepted" what on the face of it seemed like youthful indiscretions that should have been red flags.[/quote]

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