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[quote=Anonymous]I would let this on issue drop. But I'd open a larger discussion about how he thinks about finances and his parents. It's tough stuff. But since his finances are now yours, you all need to agree. My family is well off, from aggressive saving and budgeting. Both my parents grew up lower middle class to poor. My DH's family struggles, because they spend money unwisely. My DH and I had to have a lot of tough conversations about money and his family. I wanted to be clear that my priority was our family financial goals. I would not be taking money away from my own children to fund his parents or his sister's bad choices. It was sticky at time. But through a lot of conversations we came to a good place. You two need to talk about future spending and get on the same page.[/quote]
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