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Reply to "I made a mistake...but now it's too late, right?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]counseling for you on how to live with someone with depression. You also have your own issues - the line between being supportive of someone else's help and trying to fix or do for them seems muddled; and you seem to frame your happiness as dependent on his happiness; and, finally, you are clearly having some kind of buyer's remorse which you need to sort out with a professional (but not without honestly trying also to address your other issues). These are YOUR issues. They may have arisen because you believe he is depressed, but the way you react to and cope with that is what is within your control.[/quote] Spot on.[/quote] This. I think it's sad that you're hell bent on your husband being the one with the issues. You have yours too and I guarantee they are bringing your marriage too. I mean sure, go around convincing yourself that you're perfect and the victim of your husband, but you are only hurting yourself. (And your kids). [/quote]
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