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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Here’s how I look at being in a bad marriage and considering divorce:

[i]Imagine you haven’t been feeling well for a long time.  For years you’ve been dragging, feeling tired, and have aches and pains that started small but have worsened over time.  You have a few days every once in a while where you feel better but overall you know something isn’t right.

So you go to the doctor and he says “I can tell you exactly what’s wrong; you have cancer.”  You’re surprised but he continues, “Now, you can keep living as you have been and you’ll probably survive another 15-20 years, but today is about as good as you’ll ever feel.  In the end this cancer will kill you and it won’t be pretty - it’s a really unpleasant way to die.  OR… you can go through surgery and chemo which will be a year of hell - you’ll throw up every day, feel like shit, and your hair will fall out.  But the other side of that is that your hair will come back, you’ll be cancer free, and feel happy and healthy again, in fact - you may survive another 30-40 years feeling far better than you do today.”  [/i]

It’s a tough choice, but it’s your choice; continue your current path, or go through some hard times to get your life back and find happiness.   [/quote]

But sometimes the treatment doesn't work and you die anyways, after going through the year of hell. [/quote]

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