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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You two may be soulmates. It would be a shame if you were and went through life not finding out. [/quote]

OP here - that's what I think and on paper we have a lot in common, which she freely admits.  It's a timing thing and told her I am willing to wait as she needs to be a mother first right now.[/quote]

Mraaaaa this sounds super unhealthy OP. You're stuck in the spell and can't admit to yourself that she's playing you - she wants to have her cake and eat it too. Or, more directly: she wants to make sure she has you waiting on the back burner and can come back to you intermittently for attention / ego-stroking / a backup plan if she's feeling alone...etc. But she's not willing to give you anything back on her end. She has the upper hand and she knows it, and you're essentially telling her she can have it for the long haul. That's messed up, no? Think about it like this: how could she respect you (or anyone else who would willingly consent to being in that position)? Answer: she does not. To be clear I am NOT calling you this, and I do not think YOU should feel this way, but the truth is that she (even if it's unconscious) sees you as somewhat pathetic. I know that sounds harsh but you should know that's the truth; I don't think I'm doing you any favors by sugarcoating it, and I assume honest feedback is why you posted.

Also:
1) your posts aren't very well-written and lack of lot of detail / focus / clarity, so I'm going on what you have chosen to share. You're welcome to share more of the story (give us some sort of timeline and context) if you want more specific thoughts 
2) the "might be your soulmate" poster is a well-known troll who shows up and posts that on every relationship thread, no matter the circumstances. I picture it as a bitter 40 something short man but obviously just a guess; and either way not to be taken seriously

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