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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]To be clear ^ I'm referring to the equity in the house from the start date of the marriage. [/quote] We're not married yet, but I have put some much into my house prior to this relationship, and he just moved in. No joint accounts till we're married next summer. I don't want to be the insensitive ass and ask for a prenup while wedding planning, but I want to protect my house and my investment because I just hear so much stuff going wrong with relationships and people getting screwed over. I am almost too practical when it comes to this stuff. I just don't see it being well received by him[/quote]

I think the thing you have to think about is how you're going to handle the increased equity and appreciation that occurs during the time you're married.

[b]I'd feel him out by mentioning that you know such and such friend and you were amazed that he or she lost their separate property acquired before the marriage when they got divorced[/b].[/quote]

Stupid games. Just tell him you want a prenup regarding the house and that you both need to get lawyers and give a deadline by which to get this done else you are calling off the wedding. Done.[/quote]

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