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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You people are fools and let these doctors tell you anything...[/quote]

I have always wondered about this "condition."  One of the factors related to cause is environment.  I bet this is often "overlooked" by many parents.

[quote]Environmental: Factors such as a dysfunctional family life, a family history of mental illnesses and/or substance abuse, and[b] inconsistent discipline[/b] by parents may contribute to the development of behavior disorders.[/quote][/quote]

Poor parenting has always been blamed for many brain based illnesses when in is very likely that parents fall into inconsistent discipline and dysfunctional family life because their child is very difficult to manage.

You could pick the difficult child up and plop him into a family with so called excellent parenting skills, and suddenly those parents would be exhausted and show signs of dysfunctional parenting, in fact.

Now personally I'm a follower of the Collaborative Problem Solving Approach -- kids with challenging behavior will do well when they CAN do well, not when they are MOTIVATED to do well.   Kids with challenging behavior have lagging skills in things like flexibility, ability to anticipate consequences, emotional self regulation etc.  I think if you apply the principals of CPS with these challenging kids you can help them develop and improve them, and avoid a diagnosis of ODD in many cases.[/quote]

Baloney.  ODD definitely is NOT a "brain based illness" (whatever that idiocy means) because it is not biologic in nature.  Where did you come up with that hooey?  And if the parenting is so bad such that the child is diagnosed with ODD, how do you suppose that suddenly they will be good enough to master your espoused approach?  It doesn't work that way.  The child made his or her way into an ODD diagnosis because of environmental factors such as poor parenting.  ODD is not a biologic condition, it is behavioral, and behavior is shaped by parents.[/quote]

Are you trolloing? If you are correct, how do you explain away families like pp's with several successfully patented children?[/quote]

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