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[quote=Anonymous]I got married in my early twenties.  Definitely was a little immature and had unrealistic expectations of my marriage.  It took me a few years, but I realized that I was expecting DH to make me happy, provide me with a satisfying life, and to always have new, interesting adventures.

I've learned that I need to take charge of doing the things that make me happy and make my life satisfying.  And also, being an adult is kind of boring.  There are bills and housework and diapers and stress... I used to think I wanted to travel the world, 3 kids later, I just daydream about having a vacation in my house wearing comfy pajamas with takeout food and no kids for a few days.

Give your marriage some time.  Think about what things you want in your life, and how you can do them yourself.  Maybe DH doesn't want to take a job posting abroad, but would be up for a trip to Paris sometime.  Or maybe not, and you can plan an adventure with a girlfriend.

Oh, and try to think about all the things you do appreciate about him.  Remember his positive qualities, and try to appreciate the things he does bring to your life rather than just wishing he brought more.[/quote]

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