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[quote=Anonymous]You need to push outside you comfort zone. In this case, that might mean something as simple as skinny dipping. That should spark something and give you a point of reference to stir you up or keep your sparking once you get home.

Maybe each of you writes down a couple fantasies on pieces of paper, fold them up and place them in a hat. Then plan a dinner, something you both enjoy, you pick his attire and he picks yours. The goal being to pick something that stirs your attraction. Sit down to a romantic candle lit dinner and place the hat between the candles. The hat will be there, reminding you what is inside. Will my fantasy get picked or his? I wonder what his fantasies are? Sexual tension will build in anticipation. Only after the meal is finished and the dishes are away can you return to the hat. Select one piece of paper. Open it and read it together.

Very important: No judgements. Open minds. If there are certain things that are off limits under any circumstances, raise them prior to writing things down. Also, remember, any possible props or preparations (vibe, whipped cream, handcuffs, etc) need to be purchased ahead of time and available so as not to kill the mood. [/quote]

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