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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think it is also important to look in the mirror. So many perfect women on here where 100% of every issue, every day is husbands fault. He is damned if he does or doesn't

Women who think they are saints who do nothing to sacrifice themselves, give 100%, bend over backwards to give their husbands the perfect wife, rarely if ever asks for anything in return...often have very little self awareness.

Anytime anyone sees the other person as the entire problem in a relationship dynamic, I want to hear the other side of the story to get a sense of the actual issues. [/quote]

OP here. I am absolutely not perfect. But I am not snarky or disrespectful and do not operate under a double standard as to what is acceptable for him and what is acceptable to me. I know I've contributed to the dynamic, by either being snarky back or standing up for myself in a way he considers to be unacceptable, and I'm working on letting his comments go instead of responding. But I also think that's a bad model to be setting for my child. So this dynamic has to change one way or another. I'm willing to do what I have to do to change it. But he has to as well. [/quote]

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