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[quote=Anonymous]This helped us a lot. We were bickering over chores bc we both felt like we did more than the other person, and bc I usually "noticed" first (or maybe complained prematurely) about things that needed to be done (I resented putting in that mental labor, and he felt nagged). We made a list and did our best to divide it up evenly so we each had some daily chores, some weekly ones, some occasional ones. Now I don't worry about things that are his job, and vice versa (except in special circumstances, like one of us is out of town or we have company coming and just need to clean up the house). I can see how it might seem to rigid for some, but for me at least it really cut down on the chore resentment. It doesn't mean we can't help each other out, but there is one person who is "in charge" of each thing[/quote]
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