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Reply to "Did creating a master list of chores and divvying them up help your marriage?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think it could work if it's a mutual thing, like, we need some kind of system and a way to keep track of things so let's make a chart. I think it's patronizing and causes resent for one person to throw a chore chart at the other and say "you don't do sh*t! I do all the work! You're useless!" [/quote] Even if it's true? I do all of the work inside the house, we hire help for the yard. I do 75% of the kids' stuff. We both work full time. When I got my H to admit that he didn't pull his weight, he didn't agree to step up and pull his weight. His response was, well, I was the one who wanted to get married and have kids. I am not particularly concerned if HE resents ME.[/quote]
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