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Reply to "Did creating a master list of chores and divvying them up help your marriage?"
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[quote=Anonymous]We didn't do a list of assigned chores, because we felt like more flexibility might work for us given the ebbs and flows of work schedules and such. Since we both felt we were doing more than our fair share, though, we started putting together a list of everything that needed to be done that day/week, both routine chores and one-off items, and initialing next to them when they were done. It worked to keep track of who was actually doing how much so that we were dealing with facts rather than impressions in those conversations, and served as a little check on the person who might be slacking a bit one week when they see a whole slew of the other person's initials and almost none of their own.[/quote]
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