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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How long have you been married?  Why did you marry him?  Have you discussed divorce?[/quote]

We've been married for 10 years.  I married him because I loved him, we shared common interests.  But then we had kids and that has changed everything.  [b]He is so stressed out all the time and refuses to admit that.[/b]  He is addicted to his phone and social media and refuses to admit that or sees no problem with it.  I can't ask him for help with anything because it's never a good time.  I'm so lonely and sad in this marriage.  I try to ignore it but it's difficult when he is constantly pulling me into fights. I love when he works late or travels so I don't have to deal with him.  The kids are better too when he is not around.  Life is easier without him (and I Hate admitting that because it sounds so awful, but it's true).  [/quote]

Can you guys figure out a way to reduce the stress? maybe spend more on nanny/babysitter services, cleaning, etc so that you have some downtime.

I have a friend with a household income which is more than double ours(and they each make 50% of the income), and she and her husband run around like two sleepless mad people trying to juggle their young kids and clean and cook healthy meals etc. They always fight and bicker over nothing. I am convinced that with some more help with cooking, babysitting, cleaning, they would be so much happier.  But they are too interested in saving.[/quote]

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