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Reply to "Unhappy with my marriage but not sure divorce will be any better"
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[quote=Anonymous]OK, I'll join in. It sounds like regular exhaustion and boredom, and lack of ability to disengage. I think you can turn this thing around by working on YOU. You can't change your husband, but you can change YOUR response to him. You can do what YOU want (invite him). You can act how you like (You stop fighting). I don't mean don't take his feelings and preferences into account, but be accountable to yourself. You don't need to be part of that dynamic. Focus on the big stuff, and everything else is fluff. So you say ABC, and he says XYZ. Fine. That doesn't mean you have to engage with that. Or fight about it. Just say OK DH, you think XYZ. Is he a good father? Focus on that, and disconnect from the rest. Be relentlessly positive. Engage in your own life, and consider him a very close co-parent. [/quote]
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