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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I see where you're coming from OP. It seems like all of my parents and grandparents milestone birthdays and anniversaries fall to the younger generation and I'm not sure why. My grandparents have ridiculous amounts of money, but we still have to throw 90th birthday parties for them and 40th anniversary parties and such. [/quote]
It's a way if showing appreciation for what they've done on your behalf, and also a way to honor them. I think it's appropriate.[/quote]
....especially if they've paid for college and weddings. How many opportunities do adult kids have to honor their parents and thank them for their support?[/quote]

My parents didn't pay for my college or wedding. And in my case there's a "milestone year" every other year. Last year it was my moms 60th, this year it's their 40th anniversary, my dads 65th is next year. Same for inlaws. We threw inlaws a big 35th anniversary party. Dh and I only have one sibling each so there's no one to spread these milestones around with. We make 150k, have young children and student loans. All 4 parents are retired with millions. Why should I be paying? I do honor my parents. Would love to show up on a vacation they paid for. Last family vacation to Turkey cost me 7k. [/quote]

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