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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This system works great for us. It isn't keeping score, it's designing a system that is fundamentally fair. People who accuse others of keeping score usually aren't pulling their own weight.[/quote] Why does it have to be fundamentally fair? I[b]'m the default parent because I have the more flexible job. [/b] If I demanded DH do equal tasks, it would eat up our family weekend time. How is that fair to the family?[/quote] That's the fundamental fairness right there. The point is that if things get totally out of whack, or if either partner is feeling overwhelmed or stressed, it's time to have a chat about it. I think the OP made her point in spades, and now she and her DH can address it relative to their larger work, life, health etc situations.[/quote]
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