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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I dont really think its a huge deal. 12 year olds look at porn. I can remember in the early 90s waiting for our AOL dial up to connect so we could type in "hard penis" in the search engine. We weren't pervy or "bad" or anything…just 12 and curious. [/quote] +1. I concur with this and would neither inform another parent nor wish to be informed myself. [b]It is every parent's choice to monitor their child's use of technology as they choose, and if this was something the other child's mother wanted to know I would assume that she already knows. I wouldn't regard it as my business to monitor another child's actions or for another parent to monitor mine in this way[/b][b].[/quote] It ceased to be "another child's actions" when the girl showed it to OP's daughter and others. And you're naïve to assume that the parent already knows (and therefore approves, since the porn was still on the phone, right?). Many parents don't monitor kids' technology use. When you were a kid in the early 90s, hardcore porn was not instantly available to anyone, anytime, with no dial-up time to connect. You're acting nostalgic about being curious. What kids can access now is not just the penis pictures you found, but far more explicit. If you're comfortable with a 12-year-old's curiosity ending up with her or him viewing sex acts of any nature at all, fine for you, but maybe OP isn't OK with that. Maybe the girl at the sleepover only showed some penis pictures, but I doubt it. [/quote]
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