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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As a veteran of an affair (coming from a marriage where my spouse has low libido) let me tell you what will most likely happen.

You will make a pass, he will up the ante.  The flirtatious messages will intensify, and then finally it will become physical.  You will feel a side of you that felt long dead, it will be one of the most exhilarating feelings, totally intoxicating.  Especially since your spouse has no real drive, it will feel amazing to be desired again.  The sex will be good, perhaps great but at least good.  Most importantly, the feeling of being desired will override your moral compass.

You will start to confuse lust and love.  Then, as you get addicted to him, you will start to resent your spouse.

As time passes you will start to notice he doesn't text or email as often.  You then see he is dating someone else.  Why shouldn't he?  He is hot and single and the dating market for hit single guys in their 30s and 40s is amazing.  You will start to get really jealous then really mad.  Thing is, you have no one to talk to about this.  Eventually, he moves on from you, likely to someone younger and objectively prettier.  You go back to your boring marriage and now really resent your husband.  You may or may not confess.

Either way, it doesn't end well.

Unless you can really really compartmentalize like men can, and totally separate sex from love, women can't just have sex for sport and go back to their families the way men do.[/quote]+1 This[/quote]

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