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[quote=Anonymous]What's the rush? I would guess from your children's age you aren't planning on having more children. Is your FI pushing for a particular time frame? Or are you just really itching to lock him in because you are afraid of being alone? My first thought is that there is something else going on here that your boys do not feel comfortable expressing to you. You guys should definitely get into family therapy. Personally, I would just stay engaged for 5-6 years and get married when the youngest is heading to college. Meanwhile, I would use that time to explore what your kids issue is with him and work on them feeling more secure in their place in your life. You can't get married and think all of this will magically resolve itself because if you move some man that your sons don't want you to marry into your house you will put a lot of strain on your new marriage and on your relationship with your sons. [/quote]
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