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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]"Naively I said they're racist because they don't know me. I am nothing like the negative stereotypes of black people some people have. I finally meet his family and it is a disaster." Sorry OP, a racist is a racist. I'm an Ivy educated black and I know that won't get me anywhere with someone who is a racist. Don't fool yourself into thinking that all the "other stuff" counteracts your blackness. Racists don't deal with exceptions to the rule...to them, you are no different than a homeless crackhead with 7 kids. Sorry but that's how it works. If your fiancee isn't willing to move on without his family, then you have your answer. His parents' views aren't going to change.[/quote] I don't think asking someone to abandon his family is fair. You can limit your own interactions, you can limit your future children's interactions. But telling the fiance he can't have contact with his own parents? No.[/quote]
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