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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think you all put a weird edge on his interactions - and OP you cast it in that light. I have had a friend like this and I am married for almost 20 years. We are flirty BUT it is not for real - and there has never been a misunderstanding bwt us or now both our spouses. The only time it was ever an issue was with an odd duck co-worker maybe 10 years in. She decided it was a scandal and tried to enforce that as a definition of our friendship. She just realized we weren't taking bait and moved on but few icky weeks[/quote]

I don't think this is the same. He is getting  married soon and he should have known that would cause a change in the relationship. This shouldn't have had to been pointed out to him. Even if he wanted to keep it up to the last moment he should have conceded once it was brought up. The OP isn't married and that's never a good idea early in a marriage for the husband to have some single chick that he confides in. That all needs to go on the new wife. Wanna break up a marriage fast, bring in a 3rd party. Commend OP for wanting to do the right thing. Someone else might have been selfish and just kept it up knowing it was going to probably put a kink in that marrige. Him on the other hand is a problem and question feasibility of this marriage even if OP wasn't in picture. [/quote]

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