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[quote=Anonymous]Op here...Well that didn't go well. Started of explaining I wasn't comfortable could continuing to have this level of contact with a married guy. He tried to joke about it and say we have a few more weeks. When he realized I was serious he tried to blow it off like there was no need to be concerned. Even said we would be only ones who knew how much we talked or were in contact. Then I put my foot down, asked him how he would feel if his fiance was doing the same. His response was"how would I know if she was". I disregarded that statement and moved on. Repeated my point again and said we could catch up every couple of months. Then he suggested seeking permission from fiance after wedding. Then I got mad, ask if he was going to do that why after and not now. Why would he want to put his new bride on the spot day one. She would forever question our relationship no matter what her answer. He kept trying to bargining it away and I just said it again that this level of contact made me uncomfortable and ended the conversation and hungup. He has called back 3 times and text so many times I just listen to the phone pinging. I will look at the text tomorrow.

Thought he would be reasonable about this, thought he would be grown up and say I was right in wanting to respect his soon to be wife and his marriage. I am sure he will call and text some more but after this is have no reason to believe he will be reasonable so from now on it is radio silence.

Really disappointed, hoped to have gone better. Will keep you up to date if there is anything to tell[/quote]

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